"I'm Not Ready to Quit!" -
What Are You Waiting For?
By Fred H. Kelley
© Copyright 1999 Fred H. Kelley
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by Fred H. Kelley
Procrastination. I know it well. From taxes to yard work to filing
papers--you name it, I'm the expert procrastinator. I can
put off doing anything, with style and ease. I file tax
return extensions at 11:59 PM on April 15 without breaking a sweat.
Am I proud of this? Well, admittedly, sometimes yes. I pat myself on the
back and say "I have the amazing ability to get
things done at the last minute."
Do I usually end up regretting my procrastination? Almost always. So
I've had to learn ways to get things done now, on
time. I'm still learning and always will be. Procrastination is a
persistent thief!
Procrastination is an expensive way to spend your life. Waiting until
the last minute can even cost you your life. And when you
"spend" your life mired in procrastination, you don't truly live. You
are perpetually putting off living.
Focusing on quitting smoking, how many times have you said "I'm not
ready to quit," or "I'll quit tomorrow," or "I'll quit when
I'm not under so much stress"? What are you waiting for?
THE COSTS OF PROCRASTINATION
If you fail to file your taxes on time, you'll pay penalties
and interest. If you fail to quit smoking, you'll eventually pay
with your life.
Putting off almost anything will cost you more tomorrow than it will
today. I firmly believe that one of the main costs of
procrastination is the mental anguish you experience when you know you
have something you really should be doing. But most
procrastination also comes with a direct cost, whether it be financial
or health-related or otherwise.
You should take careful note of the cost of waiting "until later" to
quit smoking. Calculate how much cigarettes cost you
every day, month and year. Calculate how much of your life goes up in
smoke with each cigarette. Estimates range from three to
15 minutes of your life are lost for every single cigarette you smoke.
That's one to five hours per pack! Is the temporary
satisfaction (fix) worth that much to you? Plus smoking causes countless
fires, wastes billions of dollars in "smoking break"
time and costs billions of dollars for medical care. You pay for this
too!
CAUSES OF PROCRASTINATION
So, what causes procrastination? You do, simply put. But why? Why do you
procrastinate? Why do you put off doing something
that is beneficial to you?
Life and motivation and psychology are complex and sometimes
not rational.
What causes me to put off doing my taxes? I hate dealing with forms and
complicated tax laws and hundreds of difficult
decisions and paperwork and financial information. In my mind these are
all good reasons to "do it later." (But I bet you
never saw a Nike ad that said, "Just do it later.")
There are numerous causes and explanations for
procrastination, including, but not limited to:
1. Fear of failure
2. Fear of success
3. Fear of the unknown
4. Lack of interest or motivation
5. Lack of information
6. Too much information
7. Indecision
8. Not knowing where to start
9. Too busy
10. Laziness
Whatever the supposed cause may be, most times they are simply excuses
for waiting until later to do something that needs doing
now. What's your excuse for not quitting today?
CURES FOR PROCRASTINATION
Jump in and get started! That's what I've found to be the best cure for
procrastination. Overcoming the inertia and getting
moving helps me to "keep on truckin'" through my taxes or whatever else
I need to do. If I sit and dread doing the data
entry for all my bank accounts, nothing happens. If it just sit down,
take the plunge and start inputting my financial
information in my computer, before I know it I'm nearly done. I work
through it until I get it right. Getting my various bank
accounts reconciled takes time and some trial and error, but by jumping
in feet first I get the process started, and my taxes
done.
Similarly, to quit smoking, just get started. Today! Don't worry if you
don't have all the information or if the time isn't
perfect or if you don't think you can quit. Just give it your best shot!
There never will be the perfect conditions for you to
quit. Face it! Time waits for no one, as they say, so quit today or face
the consequences tomorrow.
Keep these thoughts in mind as you begin to quit:
DO IT TODAY! NOW! Not tomorrow or sometime soon. Seize the moment
and make it happen now. Now is the only time anyone has.
INCH BY INCH, IT'S A CINCH. If someone told you to smoke
7,300 cigarettes today, you'd call them crazy. But if they told you
to smoke a pack a day for one year, then you'd say "no
problem." Likewise, if you worry about not being able to smoke
tomorrow because you quit today, you may find yourself panicked
and unable to quit. Deal with today, and let tomorrow take care
of itself.
BEGIN WITH AN ENDING. Before you start a trip you'd better
know where you're going. In Stephen Covey's book "The 7 Habits of Highly
Effective People", one of the seven habits is "begin with the end in
mind." In other words, get a clear vision in your mind (and on paper) of
what you want, and where you want to be. This may seem contradictory to
what I said about not worrying about tomorrow, but these two principles
work hand-in-hand. By knowing clearly what you want to achieve, you can
relax in the day-to-day details of accomplishing your goal.
THERE'S NEVER A "PERFECT" TIME OR SITUATION TO DO ANYTHING.
Don't wait for "perfect" because it will never come. Do the best you can
with what you know today. Great achievers don't
magically know all the answers when they begin some new undertaking. The
process, the action, the investigation that
they experience brings the answers and the achievement. You need to
begin the process of quitting today whether or not you know how. You'll
learn by doing. You may not quit permanently the first time you try to
quit. That's okay! You will learn what YOU need to know to quit
permanently next time. Great achievers take massive action. Take action!
Quitting smoking now, today, is difficult, but the rewards are immense.
Throw out your excuses and get started. Excuses are the currency of
failure and the destitute.
Tomorrow never comes. Quit smoking today!
** Article © Copyright Fred Kelley of QuitSmoking.com. Visit the web site at http://www.quitsmoking.com
for great information and products designed to help you
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